Sunday, May 29, 2016

Poor Sick Boy

Our poor Nolan had a rough several days last week (not to mention his sleep deprived parents!). 

Thursday night we put him to bed and he kept crying. normally we don't mind letting him cry for a few minutes, he always falls asleep soon after, But something must have felt off to us this time because after about a minute Justin went in to check on him and he had thrown up! I think he threw up one more time that night, but by morning he seemed to be acting like himself so we decided to send him to Jeanni's and head to work. I asked her to let me know if he seemed sick and I'd come home right away, but nothing. She said he acted fine the whole day. So fine that we decided to go out to dinner for our normal Friday date night and even made a stop at the park to play on our way home! He acted totally normal the whole time!

But once again, about a minute after we put him down to bed that night he threw up again! So strange that it seemed to just be at night. We were up several times that night and he threw up one more time Sat morning, plus a bit of the runs. Yikes. Poor guy. We would have done anything to help him feel better and it's maddening as a parent to realize there isn't much you can do while they're throwing up.

This is mostly what our Saturday consisted of.


We called a nurses hotline and they said he probably just got a bug that's going around and suggested we give him pedialyte or gatorade. The only problem was he wouldn't touch any of it! We even tried to trick him and put a clearish-white gatorade in his bottle like it was water or milk. He took one sip, made a face, and shoved the bottle back at us. I felt pretty bad because he didn't trust us for days!! We tried to give him water in his bottle a few days later and he would not believe us! This only added to the problem because he really needed to drink!

Saturday night the poor guy woke up several times choking and dry heaving which was so terrible. It was so hard to watch him be so sick and not be able to do anything, or to rush him to the bathroom and shove his head in the toilet and he didn't understand why :( 

Sunday afternoon he seemed to start being himself and didn't throw up anymore so we decided not to take him to the doctor first thing Monday morning as planned. In fact, Monday was Memorial Day and I even went on a hike with friends because it seemed like things were going well and he just needed rest. However, by early evening we realized that he really hadn't peed at all that day and what was in his diaper was orange (he had eaten nothing that would cause that to happen so we assumed it was just really concentrated urine which scared us). All the doctor's offices and child quick cares were closed, but I called the on call pediatrician who suggested we take him to the hospital.

It's so hard trying to figure out what to do during times like these. Do I take him in? Am I overreacting? Maybe if we can just get him to drink he'll be ok. After debating for a long time we decided to see how he did during the night and if there was still no pee in his diaper in the morning we'd take him in. He woke up crying at 5am and no pee when I checked so we took him up to Primary Children's.

They told us he was definitely dehydrated, but only mildly (although our pediatrician told us it was really good that we took him in when we did because you really don't want to wait until it gets worse. Then it becomes a several nights stay at the hospital instead of a few hours). They had us try to give him gatorade before doing the IV but of course he wouldn't take it. I was ready to see him feel better and back to his normal self, but I knew it'd be hard to watch him get an IV :(

Justin held him and talked to him while they put it in. Of course he was already on edge from being sick so when they poked the IV in he just screamed. It seemed to me like they were taking forever to get the dang thing in and I kept saying so to Justin. I was like, "these guys suck at this!" haha. So Justin had to tell me that if I needed to leave the room I should just do that. Oops.

Well what do you expect when they're poking my baby?!! ☺

After they got it in and taped it down really well they left us and we let him watch as much tv on our phones as he wanted. He really didn't like the big thing on his hand, but got used to it after about 20 min and even learned how to navigate the phone with it on.

It only took about 45 min of the IV for him to start acting like himself which made us so happy. He even started eating some crackers and drinking some water.


After a few hours we were on our way home. 

But it wasn't quite over yet, he threw up on the way home! Argh! (and scary since I didn't think that would happen). But I think it was just because he had gotten so many fluids at once, because that was the last of it.

Justin went in for half a day of work and I stayed home with Nolan. Paul was so sweet and showed up to check up on his pal Nolan. He even went to the store and got some grapes, bananas, and sprite (the bananas were because Nolan asked for them, but we didn't have any). Too sweet.


Starting to feel better and waving to his adoring fans ☺
     

Oh it was so nice to see him be himself again. And after several nights without much sleep, we were ready to catch up! Not to mention all the laundry that needed to be done. Ick. We also had to transition Nolan back to his own bed since he had gotten so used to sleeping with us (it was just easier because we could hear him more easily and get to him faster with him right there). We of course waited a few nights to make sure he was totally back to himself, but then we had to show some tough love. He was NOT happy the first couple of nights and thought if he screamed loud enough we'd change our mind and let him in our bed. We needed sleep though so we held strong. It really only took two bouts of screaming and he was back to his normal sleeping routine.

Nursery

I can't believe it, but Nolan is in Nursery now!! Everyone - mostly the cute YW leaders that miss having him around for class on Sundays - has been asking how he's been doing with the transition to nursery. I'm always happy to tell them that he's doing great! Of course, he has a step up on all the other kids because Jeanni is the nursery leader ☺ Although, sometimes I worry he's a little too comfortable and/or possessive of her because we'll often sneak a peak into the nursery between classes and he's almost always sitting on her lap or in her arms haha. 

Justin and I went with him the first week (mostly because we were curious and wanted to see how he'd do with the other kids, not because we were worried about how he'd do or anything). He was so cute! It was fun to see him taking it all in and you could just tell he's really going to love learning new songs, story time, playing with play dough, bubbles, and of course, snack time! The next week, when we left him for the first time, he just looked back at Justin, smiled and waved, and said, "bye dadda!!" Ya, he's not too worried about us not being around ☺

Lastly, he has apparently been impressing all the nursery leaders because he says "tank you" every time a leader passes him a treat. That definitely makes our hearts swell with pride!


Here's Nolan's cute picture they use for the roll every week.


Play dough to start

Singing time

Lesson

This cute boy sure looks for ward to nursery every week!

Thursday, May 26, 2016

Las Vegas

Last weekend we headed down to Las Vegas for our annual May trip where we get to see both my parents and Justin's parents. It's something we really look forward to every year and we couldn't wait.

It's always more fun if there's more people though, right? So we called Preston and Devin to try to talk them into coming ☺ I'm happy to say it didn't take much persuading to talk them into it, and all the sudden we were looking at a party!

Well about 15 minutes after I talked to Preston on the phone he texted me and said our cousin Danielle and her husband and 4 kids happened to be going down that weekend too! Then a few minutes later I got word that Paul decided to come down too. All the sudden our party turned into crazy town! A super super fun crazy town!

I seriously love my family and love how much we all love being around each other. And I'm so grateful to my parents for being willing to feed and entertain so many people haha!

Preston texted me a day or two after we talked and said that when he told Beck they were going to Las Vegas and that cousin Nolan would be there he jumped up and yelled, "I love cousin Nolan! Woohoo!" Adorable.

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Breakfast with Granky looking on. Granky was pretty tickled with how Nolan absolutely devoured the pear we put on his tray.

Saturday afternoon we went to the Beach Club at Desert Shores because my dad has a free pass. The water was pretty cold but we sure had fun! Paul and Pam and Doug were able to join us too!

Justin, Nolan, Beck, and Doug


Dinner at Macayo's. I'm proud of Justin for laying on the heat and making sure they kept their word and got our big group in instead of making us wait an hour and a half like they tried to.

BJ, Beck, Preston

Gm and Gp Bailey with Nolan

Sunday night we had the entire group over for dinner. It was a madhouse, but SO FUN!!

Beck wanted to read a story to Nolan. I think Nolan had other plans, but Beck was a good sport.

Cousin hugs, awww.

Paul and my mom with Rhett and Nolan

Hanging out with Gp Mathews


L-R: Devin, Chloe Ashby, Danielle Ashby, Ella Ashby, Nolan, Beck, and Rhett.

BJ and Preston with Chloe (and I think Rhett is back there) and Granky looking on

After dinner Justin and I made a big announcement! It was my mom and dad's anniversary so we got them a picture frame (I even enlisted the help of the other kids to get pictures, but didn't tell them I added a little something extra just before I wrapped it). 

We're expecting Baby Bailey #2 in early December!

Everyone was really excited which made us so happy. Justin and I worked hard to throw people off the scent, like telling our parents it'd be awhile before they'd get any more grandkids from us, or telling Preston and Devin that it was so frustrating that it was taking a bit longer to get pregnant (which was true at the time, we just didn't know that we were actually pregnant when we told them that!). I think it worked because everyone was sure surprised!

I first found out on Easter morning so I threw in a little something 'extra' in Justin's gift to share the news with him!

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Justin was a HUGE hit with Dave and Danielle's girls. Ava and Ella wanted him to play with them all night! I'm not sure what it was about him, maybe he just showed he had stamina and was willing to play for a long time haha! But they loved him! They were pretty disappointed when they discovered he was gone on Monday (drove to LA for the day like a crazy person for a work conference), so they turned to Preston and asked if he could play with them because Justin wasn't there ☺

Paul, Ava, Justin, Ella, and Beck playing Duck, Duck, Goose

On Monday my dad heated the pool and we all went swimming. The water was absolutely perfect! We always make fun of my dad for being a cheapo and heating the pool only ONE time our entire growing up and that was for Preston and I's 10th bday. Even though we tease him, if I'm being honest, he was totally and completely right IMO. What kind of precedent would that have set to heat the pool every time we wanted to swim and thought it was too cold? Nah, that would have led to some serious ingratitude and expectations I'm thinking. Not to mention we might have gotten a little tougher jumping into a cold pool every once in awhile. 

But for the grandkids? Now, that's a whole different ball game for my dad hehe. For the grandkids, you better believe he'll heat the pool ☺ I'm just happy I get to enjoy it too.

We really missed Justin but still had lots of fun. BJ, Nolan, Meghan, Ella, Beck, and Preston

BJ, Nolan, and Meghan

Danielle and Chloe (top right)

Dave Ashby with the kids before swimming

3 cute blondes in the tub 

Saying hi to Granky. I absolutely LOVE that Nolan knows who Granky is and even says "hi tdanky" whenever he sees him ♥ ♥ ♥

Nolan took over Granky's chair during lunch. You snooze you lose! He loved it because there's a remote with buttons to put up the recliner.

I think Nolan was all partied out!

We had an amazing time and absolutely loved spending time with so much family!