Friday, September 22, 2017

Random Things Nolan Has Been Doing/Saying

I've been adding to this list for months and just never posted it so some of them are a bit out of date. But of course, they're still cute and worth remembering in my book.

Nolan is getting pretty good at stalling bedtime. Recent tactics are running to his spot behind his high chair and telling us he's pooping, asking for more stories, needing to get other blankets, or light sabers, going limp or closing his lips tightly and laughing while we try to brush his teeth, etc.

Often when we stop the car at a light Nolan will say from the back seat, "Go Daddy!" and then with relief in his voice says, "Thank you Daddy" when the light turns green and we go again. Also once shouted from the back seat when returning home from Costco one day, "Go car! I don't like your attitude!"

He has two specific silly faces that he makes quite often. With one he scrunches up his nose and lips, and the second one he sticks his chin out, closes his eyes, and gives you a big no teeth, lips closed smile. We went for a walk in the cemetery last week and he kept scrunching up his nose and seriously saying, "we better get outta here!" and running.

Nolan's latest Animated Book of Mormon quote is he'll tackle one of us and say, "you're always sticking up for Nephi."

Nolan's favorite songs for a few weeks were: You're Welcome and How Far I'll Go from Moana and 'Collection' from The Little Mermaid. He'll also sometimes sing, "iiiiiiiit's supercalifragilisticexpialidocious." He obviously can't say the word correctly but it's obvious what he's saying because of the, "iiiiiiit's supe......" (p.s. you can tell how behind I am and how long ago I wrote this because he's now been obsessed with Star Wars and only Star Wars for a month now ☺ This is sooooo last month haha).

His favorite movies are Moana, The Little Mermaid, Smurfs, Trolls, and Inside Out (but only because that's "mommy's favorite"). The struggle we have is that he'll watch each one for 5-10 minutes and then start it over. I think sometimes he just wants to practice doing things on the remote or something (he's incredibly good at working the Roku haha), but it's super frustrating so sometimes we have to ban him from the remote and make him sit down and watch the whole thing.

He still points out most STOP signs, although not quite as diligently as he used to. Last night while we were driving he pointed one out mid sentence..."When we go home we can tur..S-T-O-P, Stop...turn on Smurfs!" hahahaha ☺

This kid CANNOT leave Branson alone!! And not in a good way haha. But despite that we feel assured that he really does love him because he doesn't like it when Branson is hurt. Last week B fell off the bed and was crying really hard. Nolan laid in his bed bc we'd asked him not to get up while we took care of B. When we went to get him after a few minutes he was very concerned and asked, "what's wrong with Branson?"

Once I asked Nolan if he loved Branson. He paused before answering and you could tell he was really thinking about it.  He said, "Well...ya....but a little bit..no." Even though I of course would have loved for him to smile and shout, "yes! Of course I love him mommy!" I was actually very impressed with how he really thought about the question and gave an honest answer. He first said yes, of course he loves him. But maybe a little bit no because he's a baby and is always getting into his stuff right now and touching him, etc.

Sometimes Nolan will just put his hand on me (either on my hand, or on my shoulder, or on my back) and my heart just about bursts with love.

Once I put Nolan in time out and he matter-of-factly said to me, "Mommy, it's ok, I'm the best. Don't worry about it."

We've been going back and forth about what to do with Branson at night. I want them in the same room, and feel like they'll just have to get used to each other and learn to go back to sleep if one wakes the other up. But on the other hand, B is still learning how to fall asleep on his own and sometimes cries for a minute or two before settling in. On top of that he usually goes to sleep about an hour after Nolan so I feel bad if he were to wake Nolan up. The first night we tried it it actually worked out quite well, but for about 5 minutes whenever Branson would make a noise we'd hear, "Shhh! Branson, it's time for nap!" "It's time for nap!"


For a few weeks on the drive home from Jeanni's house N would say, "Ok Mommy, we're going to go in the house, take our shoes off, then watch TV. Got it?! (with a thumbs up gesture).

One night as we were eating dinner with Gm Bailey Nolan pointed to each person and said, "mommy, daddy, grandma, branson - you are alllll my family. I love my family." ♥ Heart melting.

Justin loves my hair when I wear it down and apparently Nolan is just like his dad, "One time I got out of the shower and had my hair up in a clip. Nolan looked up at my head and said, "what did you do to your hair? I don't like it. I like it down." :D

Once we were in a parking lot and I alerted Nolan to a car that was coming. He said, "when a car does something bad, daddy honks!" I responded, "ya, sometimes drivers are naughty." Nolan: "And when they do something really bad he honks some more!" hahaha. I couldn't wait to tell Justin that one!

Nolan can sometimes be really sweet to Branson. I love it when I hear him get close to B and say things like, "it's ok buddy" or "we're coming Branson" (when we're trying to get a bottle made) or "It's time to go to sleep Branson."

Once we were holding hands walking down the stairs and I said, "Nolan? How did you get to be such a big boy?!" And he replied, "Let me tell you... I was little, and then I got bigger!" True.

Since the time Nolan started talking we have gotten countless comments on his "adorable voice." Even from moms with kids the same age! I guess I just thought all kids talk cute, but there must be something extra cute about Nolan's voice because seriously everyone comments on it!

Sometimes I feel like a celebrity at the grocery store with N and B. I am often stopped by people commenting on how adorable and good they are ♥

Nolan is really turning into such a sweet, caring boy. The other day on our way to church Justin was buckling him in and N grabbed his tie and said, "I like your tie! It's blue and purple." We both about died. And another time I had just come back from a soccer game and was lying in his bed with him. He was sitting up next to me, and as we settled in he looked back at me and said, "So, how was your game?!"

I don't think he likes it when we spell words in front of him that he doesn't know. Whenever we do it he said, "I spell on you!" ☺

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Nolan went through a frustrating phase for a few months where he would get into trouble for whatever and then he would whine/cry/scream at an annoying volume for a long time. After a minute or two we'd usually tell him, "If you need to scream like that and get out your anger you can, but you need to go in your room because everyone else doesn't want to hear it." He'd then go in there on his bed and scream for a long time. Oey. We tried to be patient and realize that whatever it was he wanted was a big deal to him, but still, mostly he was just being ridiculous.

Anyway, once it was particularly bad and he screamed for a particularly long time and, after being patient as long as I could (like 25 min, I timed it), I was done and told him to go to bed and not to come out for the rest of the night. Finally, he stopped screaming and tried to come out one time, but I made him go back for another few minutes so he knew I was serious. After he was good and quiet for a sufficient amount of time I went in there to talk to him. We hugged for awhile, I told him I loved him, and we went on with what was left of the night. Later that night (about 2 hours later) when I put him to bed (for reals this time ☺), as I was leaving the room, he sweetly said to me, "I'm sorry I was screaming." Awww ♥

Another time I was so upset with him - it just seemed like he was constantly pushing my buttons or messing with Branson, etc. and I felt like I had been yelling at him all day (which I hate and always feel bad about). It was rough. But by the time 5pm rolled around and daddy came home he was doing really well and back to his old self. He was great while I was at piano, the whole time we were at softball, at dinner, and throughout the whole bedtime routine. There was no mention of how he'd been in trouble a lot that day. Then in the morning as I picked him up out of his bed he said, without prompting, "I'm sorry I don't listen Mommy." Sweet boy.

He's done that a few times before where he'll do something naughty, and I'll get upset and make him say sorry to Branson or Jeanni or whoever it was that he was mean or disrespectful to. He'd mumble a half-hearted, "sorry," but mostly just because I made him. But then much later, when I was least expecting it, he'd come to me and truly and sincerely apologize. It's good to remind myself that 1. He's still so little. He's just trying to process all of these emotions he's having. And it would be frustrating to have a new little person around that is always into your toys (the toys that up until now were yours, and yours only) and you don't understand why. I do believe these things aren't an excuse for bad behavior and that it's our job as parents to teach good behavior and correct bad behavior, but 2. He's just like most of us are -- In the heat of the moment, even if we know we should apologize, we're often just not ready yet. We need time to cool off. Then once we've had time to calm down and think straight, we can go back and apologize. I'm learning a lot from these kids.

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Nolan is at such a fun age where his personality is starting to come out. I wonder so often what kind of interests he will have and what kind of person he will become. I hope so much that we can teach our boys to be kind, responsible, hard working, respectful, thoughtful, and faithful. 

Sunday, September 17, 2017

BYU Football and the Utah State Fair

First up for the day we dropped the boys off at Jeanni's and headed down to Provo for the BYU vs Wisconsin game. 

Justin and I and Doug and Pam went to the bookstore before the game where we found some BYU Star Wars shirts! I really wanted to get one in Nolan's size, but couldn't find any :( After walking around for a bit Justin showed me a rack and asked if I wanted to win "Mom of the Year." Well, of course! So I picked up this shirt to win my toddler's heart ♥ Nolan LOVES pointing out all the characters.

It was a bit of a massacre (6-40) and really hot, but we still had a good time! 

Sara Thomas was also at the game with her brother and his family. It was so hot and I forgot to bring sunscreen so at half time Sara and I left to try to find some. The gas station was all sold out so we had to walk all the way to the CVS on Bulldog and University Ave. Of course the company was great so the walk didn't seem long at all. Plus we got to walk past my old stomping grounds -- The Glenhood! SO many good times in that door right there. I lived in Apartment 3 just in the door and to the left. My brothers also lived there and we had so much fun ☺

As a side note: having my brothers in the same ward might have cramped all of our dating styles. I can't tell you how many people thought we were dating each other until they found out we were siblings haha, but we didn't mind. We had so much fun together! And obviously, we were just there to hold off all the girls and guys for each other while we waited for Justin, Devin, and Kirsten to come along ♥

Beautiful fall colors


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We had so much fun going to the State Fair with Gm and Gp Bailey last year that we had to go again this year! And since they've moved here there's no excuse not to!

Sara wasn't sick of me yet so she and Lis and Sue hung out with us at the fair!

My boys are sure lucky to be so loved by my friends ♥

Nolan was so excited and loved all the rides he went on.

Branson even got to go on a ride or two!



Nolan handing his tickets to get on the ride. He loved being in charge of his tickets. And speaking of tickets - Nolan is a little charmer without even trying! TWICE during the night different people came up to us and said something to the effect of, "I have these extra tickets that I'm not going to use and I just think your son is so cute that I want to give them to him." ♥ 


The helicopters were a hit again this year.
 
Again, love my awesome friends. They even feed my babies while I eat!

Blurry pic, but it's the only one I have with the crew (minus Justin)


Suedles entered one of her watercolor paintings. She did an incredible job and it was fun to see it displayed!



Nolan's favorite ride by far was the roller coaster (get ready Gp Mathews!!). He went on it a couple of times, but then it broke down. Bummer. But I was really proud of him. He was sad, but didn't throw a fit or anything when he realized he couldn't go again.



Luckily they fixed it within about 1/2 hour and Nolan was ECSTATIC! He even got to ride with Gp and Gm too.


He also loved this slide, but we couldn't bring ourselves to pay $4 for him to ride it a second time. I mean, the whole thing is a gouge, but come on haha.

Friday, September 15, 2017

Centennial High School Athletic Hall of Fame

A few months ago I got a letter from my high school saying that they were starting an Athletic Hall of Fame and would like me to be part of the inaugural class of inductees!!

I was pretty excited and showed Justin the letter when he got home. I was a little taken aback when rather than congratulating me he whipped out his phone, gave me a sheepish look, and said he needed to check the BYU football schedule. "Are you serious right now?!" Not gonna lie, I was pretty miffed. He checked the schedule and found out that the event was the same weekend as the BYU vs Utah football game. I told him he didn't have to come, but to his credit he said he would of course be coming to my thing no questions asked. (But don't you think for a second that he didn't try to come up with some way to do both haha). 

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On our way to Las Vegas! Of course Nolan was so excited! His Star Wars book kept him pretty well occupied for a while.

The boys and I had breakfast the next morning with Granky and Robert and Suzie at Granky's house.

Uncle Robert reading Star Wars to Nolan. He even does lots of different voices to make it fun!

Making sure Granky knows all about Star Wars too.



Just two brothers watchin' Star Wars and drinkin' milk.

We love hanging out at Preston and Devin's house! The boys are pretty cute together although, as you can imagine, this scene ended in a few tears ☺

3 boys making sure their car is properly washed.

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Hall of Fame Banquet

From my Facebook post: Last night I had the incredible honor of being one of six individuals inducted as the inaugural class of Centennial High School's Athletic Hall of Fame, along with our amazing and supportive principle, Mrs. Leavitt, and the 2001-2002, undefeated, state champion women's basketball team that I was privileged to be apart of. It was sure fun to relive the "glory days" for a few hours, but the best part was seeing so many teammates, parents, and coaches that were such a big influence during my formative years. Even more special was getting to share the night with Justin and my boys and with my incredible parents, siblings, nephews, and 97 year old grandpa! They have always been my foundation and biggest supporters. I will always remember my time at CHS with fondness and cherish the friendships and life lessons learned there ðŸ’™





I was the only person to be inducted twice, as an individual and as part of a team.


The inductees

  
State Champion basketball team (L-R: Karissa, me, Rachel, Sie, Whitney, Rachael, Jenine, Ashley, and Darcy (missing Jordyn).

Me, Allison Carney, and Jared Noa

Allie and I with Principle Carol Leavitt, always so supportive of sports.

The best of the best - Allie Carney and Coach Miller. SO many good times with these two. I remember after the first cross country practice in the summer of 2000 he asked if I was coming back the next day and I mumbled something about how I wasn't sure because I might try out for the volleyball team or something. He just looked at me and said, "you're running cross country." ☺ I think a lot of people think how hard can coaching cross country be? Just tell them to go out an run somewhere haha. But there is no doubt that, unless you have a team full of superstars, having a coach that knows what they're doing is essential for a successful program. They have to know the right kinds of workouts and when to run them during the season, etc. He was and is a great mentor and friend. Plus, he did all the work to submit my name for the HofF! It's so nice to be remembered so long after leaving high school.

And Allie. I'm so so glad we had each other those first two years of CC. We pushed each other, encouraged each other, and had fun together. On out of town trips we always roomed together and shared so many good times. She was the 'team mom' and totally lived up to the name! I'm so blessed to have had such a good example to look up to and learn from!

Perfectly timed photo right as Allie dropped her plaque! hahaha

Coach Cerrone. He was never my actual coach, but I always value(d) his advice and friendship. The football and baseball teams are lucky to have him!

The inductees: The 2001-2002 basketball team and Josh Noa, Bryce Massanari, Italee Lucas, Shannon Crisp, Allie Carney, Principle Leavitt, and me.

My best friend and one of my biggest supporters in high school ♥ 
(I told BJ I couldn't include him in this tribute because he went to some other dumb school ☺ Other than him, we are a CHS family all the way!)

Nolan checking out the goods

It was so fun to be able to share this special night with my special boys.

My whole family - my amazing parents, siblings and spouses, nephews, and Granky - came to support me and I couldn't be more grateful ♥ They have always been such supports to me my entire life. I truly have been blessed with the greatest family! Note: I'm kinda sad that I didn't get a picture the whole fam, but it ended so late and the kids were really struggling (understandably) so we all headed out asap as soon as it ended haha.

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A seriously cute picture of Granky and the boys after church on Sunday ♥

It's becoming routine to stop at McD's on our way. It's pretty much smack in the middle of the drive and has a great play area where the boys can get some energy out!

Branson's first time in the tubes

Aaaaaand there goes that...